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(off topic) I have to say I'm very thankful to have found HN. I grew up in a decent, moderately sized city (300k) going to a private religious school with chil
by rancur 11y ago
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I have to say I'm very thankful to have found HN. I grew up in a decent, moderately sized city (300k) going to a private religious school with children whose parents were similarly strongly interested in the intellectual development of their children.
I had access to all the sports teams. I played soccer through Varsity, played with the golf team [but note I was not on the golf team, hehe], and basketball in middle school. I played piano for 8 years. I attended one of the top 5 schools of my field in the nation, and graduated into a small company with other graduates from my school, MIT, etc. From 'good places'.
Because of this, education was always something I always took for granted. I always valued it, but always took it for granted. My education, however, took humans for granted. Your value to society was sometimes considered limited by what you could produce. Additionally, many of those I highschooled and undergraduated with held little reservation filtering people out of their life based on, I'll call it, 'being dumb'.
This always bothered me. I believed in the intrinsic value of the human, so I always sought to correct for it. Because I always tried my hardest, it never occurred to me how people could willfully and knowingly not aspire themselves to something greater than what required minimal effort. Everyone I grew up with did, I did, and my parents did, so naturally I assumed everyone else did, too. As such, I was regularly perplexed at the value judgements certain colleagues would place on other members of humanity.
So I left that company, and struck out on my own.
I have since discovered what a rare breed my background nurtured, and now understand the wisdom in filtering those you spend time with. Instead of a prideful superiority [which I certainly observed], I exercise with a cautious respect for, and in protection of, talent and time. I exercise without placing value judgements on the people I come in contact with, but I do judge the values of the people I spend time with. In this way I safely continue to respect their humanity, and avoid pride.
It's only since I moved and became aware of my need to protect that I became aware of how hard it is to find knowledge seekers. And so, when I come across someone from a different field but similar excellence, who carries with them persuasive content helpful for advancement, I am thankful.
And so I am thankful to have found HackerNews, and specifically this lecture material that I can't wait to watch.
It's very important to surround yourself with excellence. You'll become the ones you're around, and believe their idiocy, if you're not careful.
Be careful.
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- RGamma 11y agoYes, and on the other hand of the spectrum, be careful that you don't belong to the kind posted at https://www.reddit.com/r/iamverysmart https://www.reddit.com/r/iamverysmart
- rancur 11y agowhat's reddit?
- time4hn 11y agoHmmm. No offense dude, but you come off as super privileged in this post. I mean, I'm glad you've overcome your pride and can appreciate humanity. But you're still judging people based on your own metrics. And somehow it seems like your acting as though your own enlightened judgements and approach to handling the people around you is much better, and that we should be happy to be here on Hacker News since its ideals conform to your own. Don't get me wrong, there's really no "right" thing to believe here and you're not wrong, it's just that this post comes off as strange and masturbatory. Thank you and have a nice day.