Have you ever thought why that is? I'm a "white NT cishet male", as well, and at a glance, you can't tell the decent people from the awful ones. It's about beh

Have you ever thought why that is? I'm a "white NT cishet male", as well, and at a glance, you can't tell the decent people from the awful ones. It's about behavior, and in a space where most people who look like us act like shit, it's not unreasonable to generalize a lack of trust. It's not on them to be understanding, it's on _us_. because we're in the position of privilege in this situation.