It seems US-culture centric. I'm French, I find there's much less of a push against girly things in my youth, at least compared to the US depicted in movies. I'

It seems US-culture centric. I'm French, I find there's much less of a push against girly things in my youth, at least compared to the US depicted in movies. I've heard people in US sometimes say "Either he's gay either he's European", is that true ;) ? However I felt similar things. My first long term gf dumped me 50% because I wasn't manly enough. I also praise equality and hate dominance. I also turn to my friends for advice and sharing, which isn't manly either. I'm sensitive, which bosses don't like. I'm absolutely not effeminate, by the way, but relationships work much better since I date men. But deep inside I have a secret. I'm straight. And I can say if you show feelings, society won't accept you as a hetero.