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The problem with this, and why I try willingly refuse to believe much of it, even knowing it is a solid science is that all these are circumstances outside our
by akshat_h 11y ago
The problem with this, and why I try willingly refuse to believe much of it, even knowing it is a solid science is that all these are circumstances outside our control. It is a chilling proposition that you are not really that much responsible for you success. It can become a crutch to explain your failure. Both cases, I don't like.So I read, understand and then try to forget.
- century19 11y agoCan't you learn something about your own behaviour from this? About how others interpret your behaviour. Or even change your behaviour, by not being shy to react to something you should even though others are around. I seen a great example where people were filling in forms in a room with actors(unknown to them) and the room started to fill with smoke. Most people did nothing as the actors also did nothing, until they couldn't see their forms because of smoke. It's good to know why we behave this way.
- coldtea 11y ago>It can become a crutch to explain your failure. Thinking you "have to succeed" means you are already conditioned in a certain way. Life is not a race.