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Maybe it's because I've always found it difficult to engage people I don't know well, for a variety of reasons. I'm still struggling to get past it. I'm no long
by a3voices 11y ago
Maybe it's because I've always found it difficult to engage people I don't know well, for a variety of reasons. I'm still struggling to get past it. I'm no longer scared to, but still have other mental blocks preventing me. Despite lots of efforts to fix it. It's extremely annoying actually.
- Simulacra 11y agoI find there's this weird invisible line with most people. They're all willing to talk and hang out and be jovial, but then once you cross the strange invisible line, they don't want to interact anymore. I'm not talking about something creepy, it's more like you've used up all of your in person minutes or something. Now you have to wait till next month before you can engage them again.
- a3voices 11y agoOne theory I have is that if people don't factor you into their long term goals, they won't want to devote too much time to you. Or maybe I'm overthinking this whole thing.