> If a woman doesn't want to feel like an option, shouldn't she stay far away from Tinder? Maybe but I think the problem is more general. It is not just women

> If a woman doesn't want to feel like an option, shouldn't she stay far away from Tinder? Maybe but I think the problem is more general. It is not just women who get de-valued. Human relationships of all kinds suffer from a society that sees people more and more as means to an end thanks to the redundancy that social online networks of all kind enable. For example, it seems to me that people these days accept several private invitations that take place simultaneously only to decide last minute which of the available options they like best. I think this is rather sad. But then again I entered the world of grown ups not so long ago. Maybe society hasn't changed that much after all?